Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Family and Friends

Family and friends are so important, but I think one of the biggest mistakes we make as individuals is to think we can help someone by changing them. It borders on arrogance to think we can change someone. The only person that can change someone is themselves, they are the only one that can to choose to accept advice and apply it or reject it. The only thing we can do is offer advice and hope they listen, think for a minute, even God doesn't make people change. He offers direction and hopes people accept his wisdom. For us to try to change people is to invite stress and disappointment. So the final thought, lets all work on improving ourselves, because I am the only person that can change Me!